Why Do We Make A Big Deal On Our Anniversary?
Every year, (except for 2010 and now 2020), we took anywhere between 3 – 7 days flanking our anniversary to get away, relax, and reconnect. On the evening of our anniversary, we get dressed up and have a romantic elegant dinner.
We make a big deal about our anniversary, because we are marking a new milestone which is another year of continued commitment. Having the ability to go away for our anniversary is a blessing, but what’s most important is how we spend the time together… even if at home.
Ways To Celebrate Your Anniversary From Home
Your anniversary can be just as romantic (or even more) at home than if you were able to celebrate out.
1. Have a spa day. Give each other pedicures, facials, and/or massages.
2 . Disconnect from your computer and phone for the day and connect with each other instead.
3 . Binge-watch movies or television series. Prepare some healthy snacks for the day.
4 . Bake your anniversary cake or dessert together. Teamwork is key for a healthy relationship!
5. Get dressed up for dinner. You may be home all day in your sweats, but this is date night. Look glamorous for your spouse!
6. Have a themed dinner. Order from a restaurant that serves the cuisine you would have if you were celebrating your anniversary away from home.
BONUS: Did you receive china as a wedding gift? Your anniversary is a day worthy of using the good stuff!
7. Add some music and dancing to your dinner date. Not comfortable dancing in public? You can relax. It’s your party in your home.
BONUS: Did you have a first dance at your wedding? Recreate that moment.
8. Play a board or card game.
9. Get a little exercise by taking a stroll around the neighborhood after dinner. Work off that dessert.
10. Make cards for each other. What are 3 things you admire about your spouse? Use this as the basis for your card.
11. Take this time to plan for next year’s anniversary.
Do you have kids at home?
Have kids still in the house? Make your anniversary celebration a family affair. Depending on the age of your kids, they can play different roles in creating a perfect day. They can serve dinner, create the artwork for handmade cards, and participate in the games. If you have older children, they can babysit the younger ones for the day.
We had one of our best anniversaries at home. We unplugged from our computers and put the phones away for most of the day. We watched movies and picked up dinner from one of our favorite restaurants. Our son played dual role or waiter and DJ. He played slow jams from his is impressive playlist. We even danced a little.
It did not matter where we were, as long as we are together, it’s always a honeymoon!
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Keirsten
It just so happens to be my 7 year anniversary today. What a fitting post to stumble upon thanks to the It’s a Lovely Life community. I will definitely be implementing some of these ideas tonight. Thanks!
Selena
This is so sweet. I love how you always make your anniversary special. It’s so hard to take time out for our spouses with work and kids.
It’s awesome that you celebrated at home and got the kids involved too.
Kali
This was a great way to keep the celebration going despite the changes we’re facing right now. We love celebrating our anniversary too. This makes me want to stay home and give this a try 🙂 Happy belated anniversary!
Sunny
Thank you so much for the lovely post, your ideas, and also for helping me feel joyful about celebrating at home this year. You’ve made a difference and I hope you feel really good about that!